Insights: Heads Up!

Head's up! Face everything ; It's normal.

People sometimes struggle, been happy, been in love, been hurt, been in a way that no one could explain. 

All of us could feel the same.

We may encounter problems in our lives. 

We may have a quick solution, and some of these, there's no other way, but to face it until they could find an answer.

Life as we all know is a challenge to face.

If we got hurt, we should stood up. Face everything. Move on. Life goes on as they say.

If we got a NO from someone, don't take it as a negative answer, instead a big NO actually means A Big "Next Opportunity".

If we encountered a problem that's difficult to handle, take it as a challenge. All of us are given a challenge. And challenges we may get in our everyday lives always depend on how our Almighty God sees if we can handle everything.

If we got a break-up,  don't take it seriously. We could cry on ourselves one night, or even two, after that. It's enough. As I was able to experience this, I could say that, break-ups are an essential part of our life. And this is for all of us. No one is allowed not to feel this thing. Break-ups could come from a family,love ones,or even friends. This essential part of our lives are considered to enhance one's perspective.

If we got a love, give back. Love as we all know is a give and take process. Once a person gave love, we must take it and give back. 

If we got happiness, seize it. Laugh out loud. Smile. Be happy. Priceless moments we have in our lives are always the best. Take it.

If we got a drama, take it but not too long. Drama could be a part of our lives but Dramas are a big NO for me. Enough for the dramas.

Heads Up! People who seek happiness on other people, should instead seek happiness from their within.

Trying hard to look happier than anyone else. Fake smiles. Being alone at times.

These are okay.

But why do we always pin our hopes and base our happiness onto something that we all knew that is impossible? 

"Kasi kahit na alam kong mali, alam kong doon ako masaya". One of the lines that we always hear from someone who suffered from a broken relationship.

We do always knew that even if it's wrong from the eye of the others, as long as we knew that it is our happiness, we just continue to do it.

We do not mind them because, from ourselves we knew that by doing this, we could make ourselves happy.

Sometimes, we are on a fear of letting go and holding on tightly to what we knew isn't good for us.

"Stop blaming and impressing someone. Build relationships because relationship is a key for happiness."

Being positive all the time can make us happy.

How About "LDR"

"Long Distance Relationship aren’t always ideal. In fact, they’re really tough. You spend countless of hours just talking through a phone or through a screen. You can’t see the person when you want to or when you most need them.. You can’t hug, you can’t hold hands, you can’t kiss. You lose the intimacy in a physical sense. But then, Your relationship becomes based on each other and nothing else.

You learn to communicate,because a long-distance relationship without communication is nothing.
You learn to trust, because you can’t always see or know everything the person is doing.
You learn to sacrifice, because someone’s always going to lose a bit of sleep from the time difference.
And lastly, you learn to appreciate.

So often, we take for granted the people and relationships in our lives because we think they’ll always be there.
But When you only have a limited amount of time with a person, you learn to appreciate and cherish every single moment you have with them.

When you finally see that person after weeks or months of seeing them only through a computer screen,

It is one of the greatest feelings in the world.

When did I actually felt this?
I waited for something so long and finally have it..Cherishing it. 

As we knew,key to a long-distance relationship is faith.

If both of you are not willing to give up,
If both of you are willing to stand up and still try after every time one of you or both of you fall.

“Distance isn’t for the fearful, it’s for the bold ".

It’s for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for the little time with the one they love.
It’s for knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don’t see it nearly enough.”

Activating Blog: Raconteur-girl on her prolificlife :)

Hello my dear blog! 

After how many years?

I am planning to activate this blog site AGAIN. 

Will be posting some stuffs about life / other's lives.

See you soon blog mates! 

Lovelots; 

Berry. :D